Boring Sunday Afternoon

Its Sunday afternoon and I am in Office. WHY? so that i get leave on Monday and Tuesday..
Mom is all alone in Home. Didi wanted to shopping but I can't help her...All because I m in Office...

Well I am Happy because ..my work is going to over soon and .. I will leave...and plan for Pondicherry..........

Well Pondicherry I am Coming,...All gear up to write my new blog..TRAVEL CORNER.......

Well Guys,, You enjoy  your Sundays... because Monday is Mine :)

Handling Trouble @ trouble times..

Its very strange how human mind works.
Have you ever realized how your mind works in trouble times. Once I went for a lecture by his holiness the 14th Dalai Lama. His topic for lecture was "How to handle Trouble times in your life". The one and only one solution he gave was to remain Calm and cool. The more calm your brain is the more easily and quickly you will get rid of the trouble times.

All of us know this remedy but whether we follow this remedy in our daily lives .
Off late I started following this "Mantra" and believe me it works. It really really works wonder.  In our school syllabus  there was a poem which says "never get scared of any Problem..just think the way problem came by it own..it will go away itself". No one likes to be ignored not even our problems.
"Don't give your problems that much importance that it does not feel like going away from you".  Neglect it  don't make it the only purpose of your life..otherwise it will never leave you.

One peculiar thing I realized this week , I have read this in Akbar-Birbal Comic but didn't understand the deeper meaning that time.
The story goes like this...
 Once THE GREAT Emperor AKBAR took a piece of paper and drawn one line on it. Then he asked his learned courtiers to make the line small without erasing the existing line. Every one looked at each other.Then Mr Intelligent (Birbal ) took the piece of paper and he draws another line bigger than the line drawn by Emperor. The first line automatically became smaller...

Whenever I am in problem. I will think OMG! this is the biggest trouble of my life..but once I encounter other bigger problem I don't take the previous problem that seriously..It happens with me..don't know about you guys..

But One thing is common for all of us..@trouble times please talk to you family, Your friends, your loved ones..
It will give you the courage to hold on and overcome the problem..

For Now Enjoy the happy times...
Ranjeeta ..28th July 2011

Zindagi Naa Milegi DooBara..

After long time today I felt like writing. 

No It wasn't like I was too busy or didn’t get time for it. 

My laziness is killing the blogger in me (well ! I think was trying now ).

So why I selected the tittle Zindagi Na Milegi Doobara....simply to motivate myself..to enjoy the zindagi more and more..

Well Today I will share a  small Incident with you guys as I always Do :)

----Flashback-----------

Place :Mumbai 

Time : Sometime in Jul 2010

Venue  : Nirmal Life Style Mall

  One Friday evening me and my friends decided to do a little bit of shopping  and hang out in the nearby mall. As usual  we decided to go to "Nirmal Lifestyle", Mulund Mumbai. 

 

As usual the Mall was fully packed with all kinda people... kids with their parents or you can say parents with their Kids, youngsters, college crowd, office goers like us, everyone in Friday Mood.

Its the best place to some promotional event for new daily soaps, reality shows, New product , new shop...whatever.

So when we reached there as usual promotional event for some brand was going on.

A young guy with mike was calling people from the Audience to participate in different Events. He dared 5 women/girls to come up on the stage and dance in front of the crowd. Two girls came forward the guy shouted “No Other Girl in the Mall Dare to the Dance” ..No response from the audience. Then a lady came to centre –stage. The crowd started cheering her. She was wearing a simple cotton salwar kameez, hair neatly combed and tied. 

The guy greeted her and ask her “Maam which song do you want me to play?”. The lady replied “Any song you like”. The guy asked the crowd now, someone from the crowded shouted “Shakira ..shakira”. 

The Dj played the “Shakira ..sharika” the lady started dancing and my good lord you should have seen the energy , the grace with which she danced. She dance the whole song and crowded equally jubilant cheering her up. Once the music stoped every one clapped for her and the event manager came and handed her with the award.

The Anchor asked “Ma'am please don’t mind, can I ask you a question”.

The lady smiled and replied “sure”

The Anchor “ How Old are you?”

The Lady smiled and said “ I am 77years Young Girl”.....

Her Grey hair shining like Silver, her Twinkling eyes like a small girl , her sweet smile ..what an amazing personality till date I can see her face when I close my eyes...

We all clapped

Thats my spirit of Zindagi Naa Milegi Dubara....

Think Like a Drunkard!

“Lehron se Darkar nauka par nahin hoti,
koshish karne walon ki haar nahin hoti”

 

Above lines from Harivansh Rai Banchan’s Poem stores the greatest key to success.
Success in anything you want to do.  All we need to give is honest afford from our side and keep our mind calm and cool.

Some days ago I attended a lecture by his Holiness the Dalai Lama.  He didn’t speak anything which was not relevant in our every day life. He was talking about “being happy in difficult times”. The only mantra which his holiness suggested was a “calm mind”.  A calm mind can make you forget all your pains and worries  in most difficult times, it can lead you to win a battle against mighty enemy easily.

It is not very good idea to react immediately ( yeah ! I know its difficult sometimes). Once we react  to any situation or any person we are became puppets in their hands and giving our full control. Do you want to give your control to someone or some situation completely?

Then Just Chill. Every problem have a solution. The path may not be very clear but our destination should be clear. Once we know our destination we should start exploring different paths instead of sitting and waiting for the time to come up with an idea, believe me its the journey not the destination that you will remember and cherish about .

In school, I had read another poem of Harivansh Rai Banchan “Madhusaala” (Bar) . He gave very nice analogy of a drunkard who finds some or other way to reach Madhusaala (Bar) and enjoy his drink.So we should be like a drunkard and find some or other way to reach our destination :)

Hey ! Don’t get me wrong  I am not saying “ start drinking “  what I mean is start thinking like the drunkard who have to strongest desire to reach madhusaala and enjoy his (her J ) drink

Columbus ! Columbus ! lets find a New Place!!!!!

Last week I have done kinda some survey asking my friends “What are the Five Things You want to do before you Die”..

Hey Hey!! Before you read this article  please take a pen and paper and list down the five things you want to do before you Die. Believe me it will be great FUN.

DONE . OK check your list  Does it has something like World Tour, Travel ling to some Exotic places, Going to Himalayas, Deep sea Diving  . I am sure for any normal person it would be in the list along with the other things. So there is a Columbus in all of us.

I don’t know how many of you heard this Song from a Hindi Flick  Jeans “Columbus Columbus Chutti hai aayi..chalo naya mulk dhonde mere bhaiye”.

So start exploring the beautiful world if not in magic carpet or a ship..start exploring by whatsoever mean you have :)

Direct dil se..

This is direct dilse..no thought no thinking involve.
IS being SINGLE so bad Huh?....
Suddenly everyone popping up the same question "Shadi ( means marriage yaar!) kab kar rahi ho.. BF friend toh hoga tumhar..blah blah ...
Can you beat this one old friend of mine suddenly ask me "shadi kab kar rahi ho" . I said "No idea". You have BF. I said 'NO" after long pause "will you became my GF". I said  "if u don't have GF and I don't have BF does not mean that I will become Your GF".
Go #%^^###
I AM HAPPY BEING SINGLE.
I don't want any stupid fool to play with my emotion and then one fine day give some third class excuse to end a relation which means nothing for him. Its all S%^&.  I don't want to waste time and energy for any hopelessly idiotic person then. people just make you fool and play with your bloody emotion.
IF you don't have the dare to face the consequences and to bear the aftermath. PLEASE PLEASE don't spoil anyone's life for heaven sake.

BE SINGLE BE HAPPY.. No sad songs in life, No tears , No Agony Aunt's help. 14th Feb is around the corner! but man best thing to do is love urself , love life and enjoy it. Instead of wasting it for some fool..


I am apologetic about using such blunt and unparliamentary langauge.. but this is direct dil se..


R'jeeta

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